By Damilola Solomon
Heartbroken relationship is a danger that has to be looked at, people enter into relationships with high hopes and become uninformed about how their expectations will be met.
The suicidal thing is just a lack of pure and fire understanding; youths these days easily fall into depression and commit suicide due to so many factors.
Suicide is one of the leading causes
of death in the world and it may be the tip of the iceberg, considering that
one in 25 suicide attempts will actually be fatal.
Breakups are never easy, the end of a relationship can flip your mind upside down and trigger a range of emotions. Some youths quickly accept the demise of a relationship and move on, but others may deal with depression.
This can be a heartbreaking time, and it can feel as if your world is falling apart. But while sadness is a normal reaction after a breakup, it's important to recognize the symptoms of depression.
There might be no way to tell how many deaths believed to be due to natural causes or accidents. Still, while health statistics confirm that more people than ever are attempting suicide.
Relationship issues seem to stand out in particular, people look to their romantic partners for security, comfort. Adults who have been in a long time committed relationships often find that all other emotional bonds become less important.
According to Adebimpe Ajayi who is a relationship expert, in the world we live today, children not adults go into relationships without any knowledge of how it's done.
She added, "Let me put a scenario of a secondary school girl in a relationship and after sometimes she had issues with her relationship which led to breaking up, sitting herself up and thinking about how she has useless herself and still get dump made some of them go into depression and absolutely what does a young girl just trying to build her world knows."
Adebimpe also stated that in the aspect of a guy, we have seen a lot of youth trying to get rich by all means all because they want to be in a relationship with a particular lady.
Narrating her own experience, Ogunsanya Enitan expressed," I was so much in love with my boyfriend to the extent that if we don't see each other or talk in a day I can't sleep, I won't be in a good mood. We liked each other very well and is as if we are married.
"But on this faithful day, I got to his house and met another girl with him having sex together, I felt bad and rushed out, after that, I was even expecting him to call me because after that scene I still loved him and I was also thinking about the past, and after some minutes I saw a text message from him telling me that he has found someone better than me that I should move on after 8 years in the relationship.
"After the message, I just found myself on a sickbed, I felt so bad and heartbroken."
However, I urge youths nowadays to be vigilant in a relationship or not even attempt to do it.
People dealing with a breakup should consider mental health counseling to help them cope, especially if they were deeply committed to the relationship and are having difficulty with the end.
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